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1st April is the day to make people fools, by giving them any gifts that comes out to make people fool. Sometimes people also declare something about themselves that people believe, which turns out funny.
But this day is not a day of enjoyment for all. Pranks can sometimes kill. Sometimes pranks get to level of abuses, and these should not be tolerated as only pranks.
From the image you can see at what level actually pranks are made. This type of pranks are not at all proper and should not be made upon anyone. But sadly these are common these days, and people do not see anything wrong in these things.
Here I got a link which you may find useful to understand. The author describes, why he hates April fools’ day.
http://open.salon.com/blog/henric_c_jensen/2009/04/01/on_the_matter_of_april_fools_day
“…The one day on the year when I do not answer my phone, don’t go out and don’t believe anything anyone tells me. Not even my wife or my dog….”
It is very shameful that society now focuses to abuse people instead of having fun on this day.
The situation in the image you’ve seen is not at all funny! Instead it is an abuse! Please make this day bully free, so that everyone can enjoy.
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In the last post (which was imported from another blog) you saw how much injustice is faced by the victims? The victim was trying to save himself, but the court declared it as offense!
It is a matter of common sense that if anyone who is getting bullied will try to save himself first, he will surely try not to get hurt or die. But the bullies were not given any punishment because the victim also tried to defend him! Is it the law that deeds will be only considered as crimes if it kills someone?
Shameful! The society is now full of people WITHOUT BRAINS!
This type of acts proves that most people are not at all aware of what bullying is and what are its consequences. People who don’t get bullied never understand the feelings of the victims, or even how to face such situations. Some people who have now become juries in courts have no brains at all. They lack the capability of thinking. Such people are now the leaders, juries!
Fools, idiots and scientifically illiterate people are now ruling us. Mass protests are required to remove them. I do not see any difference between that Judge who took the case of Adrian and dictators like Muammar Qaddafi or Bashar- Al- Asad. Do you?
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I found a sad story about Revenge Bullying that came out of Colorado. The Denver Post reported that an 8th grade boy was picked on and beaten by some classmates, because he has a German name. Adrian Ulm was called a Nazi and beaten so badly he had to be hospitalized with broken bones and a head injury.
Now the interesting part is that the justice system says that this cannot be declared a Hate Crime. How can that be? The argument made in this case is that Adrian fought back. The boy who beat him up wanted to fight and Adrian decided to defend himself in order to make the bullying stop.
Now he has a hospital bill and no recourse. This just doesn’t seem right to me. If tables were turned or the case was presented differently, then I believe it would end up in court as a hate crime. In the Denver Post article, it goes on to say:
His attacker won’t face criminal charges, because Adrian voluntarily took part in the fight, the Ulms were told. But a 2-year-old amendment to Colorado’s hate-crime laws could make Adrian’s assailant the first youth in Colorado to be sued for punitive damages on the basis of school bullying.
“I would definitely describe this as a hate crime,” said Adrian’s lawyer, Gregg McReynolds, who has not made a decision about a suit…
David Finkelhor, director of the University of New Hampshire’s Crimes Against Children Research Center, agrees it’s important for schools to take bullying seriously.
“You need lots of options,” he said Monday. “But first, you need a criminal-justice system and a school system that takes it serious.”
I agree that we need fairness in the system, but more importantly, we need a system that takes these things seriously.
Source: http://bullyinglte.wordpress.com/2008/02/27/revenge-bullying-a-sad-story/
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Bullying makes someone cry, takes away smile from someone’s face! The victims often feel miserable, and they cannot share their feelings, they cry in a dark room where they feel enough comfortable to commit suicide.
The victims often feel such allergic to people!
The person who never got bullied can never understand the feelings! Indeed bullying is a subject of humor for them. They suffer from depression, anxiety and adults of their family often scold them for their change in behavior, but they never understand or even try to do so. This makes them feel more miserable, which ultimately causes them to cry for their pupil’s death.
INDEED THE SOCIETY THAT BULLIES ALSO INCLUDES THE ADULTS OF THE FAMILY OF VICTIMS.
Indeed, the society enjoys bullying others, it is fun for them, it is a form of entertainment, this makes them happy. Taking away smile from a cute face makes their face burst into laughter, it is a pleasure. Yet people think that death is not the ultimate solution!
Bitter… yet the truth :(
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Never, it is not possible for human beings to please the society, to make them understand that you are not wrong. The society has just got fucked up, the society never wants you to live in peace!
So, sometimes you can ignore what other people say, for the society no one is perfect. But the society isn’t perfect at all to judge people. They do not have the rights to judge people, only you can judge yourself.
So be happy and never mind the words said by society. THE SOCIETY HAS GOT FUCKED UP!
You do not need to please any person other than yourself, you were born to enjoy your life, not to please the society.
Society makes fun of you only because they are jealous of you, so be proud!
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Ever wandered how the bullies and the sufferers spend Valentine’s Day?
Many teens bully some others so as to impress their partners. The teenagers who suffer, practically they can never be in relationships. It is because they feel nervousness in most situations.
If they tell their crush about their feelings, they are rejected in most cases. People laugh at them generally and they tend to lock up themselves in a room. They spend the whole day crying and weeping in a dark room.
They lose their every hope, they lose their every desires and their broken heart doesn’t allows them to pass any test in their colleges. They see themselves as a loser. They do not find any ray of hope from their life.
In this situation, they see no one who love them, no one who admires, no one who cares. Adults in the family never understand their situation, they get scolded by their parents for their behavior which is often rude. That makes them feel more miserable.
They feel jealous of others who have girlfriends/boyfriends, because they never had that pleasure. They never enjoy on 14th Feb every year unlike others, as they need to hide their face in a dark room, they need to shed their tears which they resisted so long…
This makes them a feel a hate for Valentine’s day, that’s it…
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People cannot imagine how it feels to get bullied everyday, to live in the fear of bullying every second. People never know how bad it feels to hide your face. People can never know how embarrassed you feel because of which you lock up yourself in a room. Society can never understand why you feel embarrassed to enjoy your life. People do not understand why you always like to be alone. Society only knows one thing… to make you cry, to make you feel ashamed of yourself, to compel you to commit suicide.
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Sometimes it happens that people need to cry, they need to express how bad they feel, they need love from people, they need shoulders to cry because they cannot bear it more.
But they see no such people whom they can trust, they cannot even think to be in relationships, as survival becomes a luxury for them!
❝Insults are now part of
everyday life☹☹
I don’t fear of them
I don’t feel embarrassed now
The only thing I feel is that
Something is going really wrong
Which I cannot bear
Which no one can hear…
No one can hear…!❞
Teens who get bullied often search for someone they can rely upon, so that upon their shoulders they can shed tears, it can be their friends, their partner or their parents.
Parents and adults of the family can never understand how miserable your feelings can be! You thinking is certainly wrong if you think that you can trust someone of your age or from your closest friends. Your friends will bully you back if you trust upon them, such is our society! Most of the teens who get bullied can never be in relationships, so stop hunting for that!
Indeed crying and explaining feelings can make you a little relaxed but finding a such trusted person is indeed IMPOSSIBLE! )’: ):
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The statistics on bullying and suicide are alarming:
- Suicide is the third leading cause of death among young people, resulting in about 4,400 deaths per year, according to the CDC. For every suicide among young people, there are at least 100 suicide attempts. Over 14 percent of high school students have considered suicide, and almost 7 percent have attempted it.
- Bully victims are between 2 to 9 times more likely to consider suicide than non-victims, according to studies by Yale University
- A study in Britain found that at least half of suicides among young people are related to bullying
- 10 to 14 year old girls may be at even higher risk for suicide, according to the study above
- According to statistics reported by ABC News, nearly 30 percent of students are either bullies or victims of bullying, and 160,000 kids stay home from school every day because of fear of bullying
Many victims of verbal bullying are affected in very real ways. Verbal bullying can affect one’s self image, and affect someone in emotional and psychological ways. This type of bullying can lead to low self-esteem, as well as depression and other problems. It can aggravate problems that a victim may already be experiencing at home or in other places. In some cases, verbal bullying can reach a point where the victim is so depressed, and wants to escape so badly, that he or she may turn to substance abuse or – in some extreme cases – suicide. In the end, words have a power all their own, and the realities of verbal bullying can have very physical consequences, even if the aggressor never lays a finger on the victim.
The NCES report reveals that:
- There is noticeably more bullying in middle school (grades 6, 7, and 8) than in senior high school
- Emotional bullying is the most prevalent type of bullying, with pushing/shoving/tripping/spitting on someone being second
- Cyberbullying is – for the middle grade levels – the least prominent type of bullying, but it is greater in the last three years of high school than in grades 6 – 9
- Most school bullying occurs inside the school, a lesser amount on school property, and even less on the school bus. The least occurs in other areas
- Middle school students, and particularly 6th graders, were most likely to be bullied on the bus
- Sixth graders were the most likely students to sustain an injury from bullying, with middle schoolers more likely to be injured than high school students and the percentage going down every grade from 6 to 12
- Victims of bullying display a range of responses, even many years later, such as:
- Low self-esteem
- Difficulty in trusting others
- Lack of assertiveness
- Aggression
- Difficulty controlling anger
- Isolation
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Many times, children won’t tell their parents that they are being bullied because they’re ashamed or are afraid of retaliation if they tell an adult what’s happening. That’s why it’s important to look for signs that something’s wrong. Does your child:
Come home with bruises, cuts, ripped clothing, missing belongings, etc.?
Refuse to go to school in the morning or complain of having frequent stomachaches, headaches or other illnesses that require parents to keep the child home?
Show a sudden loss of interest in school and schoolwork?
Appear depressed, moody and becoming tearful without a reason?
Become socially isolated with few good friends?
Rush in to go to the bathroom after getting home from school? Bullying often takes place in the school bathroom because adults aren’t present and it’s easy to block the exit.
Get in trouble at school? At times, the child who is being bullied lashes out in response.
Courtesy: http://endofbullying.com/signs-your-child-is-being-bullied/
